Golden Retrievers are known for their friendly, loving, and easygoing nature, but that doesn’t mean they love everything their humans do. Like all dogs, they have preferences and dislikes, and some human behaviors can annoy, stress, or even upset them. Understanding what your Golden Retriever hates can help you build a stronger, happier relationship with your furry friend.
Here are 12 things that Golden Retrievers hate—some of these may surprise you!
1. Leaving Them Alone for Too Long
Golden Retrievers are highly social dogs that crave companionship. Leaving them alone for long hours can make them feel anxious, lonely, and even depressed. If you have a busy schedule, consider getting a dog sitter, enrolling them in doggy daycare, or ensuring they have plenty of interactive toys to keep them occupied.
2. Not Giving Them Enough Exercise
Golden Retrievers are an active breed that needs a lot of physical and mental stimulation. If they don’t get enough exercise, they can become bored, restless, and even destructive. Daily walks, playtime, and training sessions are essential to keeping them happy and healthy.
3. Ignoring Their Need for Mental Stimulation
Goldens aren’t just physically active—they’re also highly intelligent. They hate being bored! Without mental stimulation, they may resort to chewing furniture, digging holes, or excessive barking. Puzzle toys, obedience training, and interactive games help keep their minds engaged.
4. Yelling or Harsh Punishments
Golden Retrievers are sensitive dogs that respond best to positive reinforcement. Yelling or using harsh discipline can make them fearful, confused, or even anxious. Instead, use treats, praise, and gentle corrections to guide their behavior.
5. Neglecting Their Grooming Needs
While Golden Retrievers have beautiful, fluffy coats, they require regular grooming. If you neglect brushing, their fur can become matted and uncomfortable. Many Goldens also dislike having their nails trimmed, but skipping nail care can lead to painful walking. Make grooming a positive experience by offering treats and praise.
6. Forcing Them into Uncomfortable Situations
Golden Retrievers are usually friendly, but that doesn’t mean they enjoy being forced into interactions with strangers, children, or other dogs. If your Golden shows signs of discomfort—like backing away, lip licking, or yawning—respect their boundaries and give them space.
7. Ignoring Their Body Language
Goldens use body language to communicate, and they hate when humans ignore it. If your dog is wagging their tail loosely, they’re happy, but if they tuck their tail, lower their ears, or avoid eye contact, they’re feeling scared or uneasy. Pay attention to these signs to understand their needs better.
8. Dressing Them Up Uncomfortably
While some Goldens tolerate cute outfits, many hate wearing clothes, especially if they feel too tight, heavy, or restrict movement. If your dog seems uncomfortable or stressed, skip the costume and stick to a cozy, well-fitted harness instead.
9. Being Inconsistent with Training
Goldens are eager to please, but inconsistent training confuses them. If one day you allow them on the couch and the next day you scold them for it, they won’t understand what’s expected. Always be consistent with rules and commands to avoid frustration.
10. Taking Away Their Favorite Toys or Treats
Imagine if someone took away your favorite snack mid-bite! Golden Retrievers can feel frustrated or confused when humans suddenly take away their toys, food, or treats without a trade or explanation. Instead, if you need to remove something, offer an alternative or use positive reinforcement.
11. Bathing Them Too Often (or Not Enough)
While Goldens need regular baths, too much bathing can strip their skin of natural oils, leading to dry, itchy skin. On the other hand, not bathing them enough can result in dirty, smelly fur that becomes uncomfortable. A bath every 4–6 weeks (or as needed) is ideal.
12. Being Bored & Left Out of Family Activities
Golden Retrievers are family dogs and love being included in activities. They hate being ignored while everyone else has fun. Whether it’s a walk, road trip, or just relaxing in the living room, your Golden will be happiest when they’re by your side.
Final Thoughts
Golden Retrievers are loving, affectionate, and loyal companions, but like all dogs, they have things they dislike. By understanding and respecting their needs, you can strengthen your bond and ensure they live a happy, fulfilling life.
If you’re guilty of any of these behaviors, don’t worry! Just making small changes—like providing more exercise, consistent training, and positive reinforcement—can make a huge difference in your Golden Retriever’s happiness.
Do any of these sound like your Golden? Let me know what your pup hates the most!
